Way too many people are misinterpreting what boundaries in business actually mean and what they should look like. This is why we have so many people trying to justify their power moves instead of embracing their iconic selves.
The misinterpretations are a result of applying the “spectrum” to the concept of boundaries. It’s not easy to uphold a strong, extreme boundary that you set when you were in a superfrequency of extreme power.
When you drop down into your shadow, even just a little bit, that boundary suddenly feels wrong. It suddenly feels too harsh. It suddenly feels like you are closing yourself off to opportunity because you shut the door a little too tight and bolted it with three different locks.
And thus begins the justification of how you feel about the boundary, how you could TECHNICALLY still uphold it if you made a simple tweak that doesn’t totally affect the boundary (maybe just remove two out of three locks?) I mean, the door is still locked, right?
And the entire world of spirituality will tell you to do what feels right to you. They will support you on that move.
I won’t. Why? Because I know WHO made the choice for that extreme boundary in the first place.
Your iconic badass genius self did. That monstrous version of you who dares to release the spectrum of justifications and stand at the one, single all-or-nothing point.
With NO explanations necessary for such an extreme choice.
THAT version of you is standing on true magic ground.
Because real magic is not questionable. It won’t be questioned. It is that single point of truth.
So the next time you want to let someone come in and “test out your services”, or ask for a preview that you didn’t powerfully choose to provide as a part of your freebies, or hell even read your refund clause before investing in you… (hi, is this a joke? If they’re thinking about refunds during the time of investment, say goodbye.)
…. Let yourself be extreme. Business boundaries are not up for interpretation by your clients. Fuck no.
They are completely your choice, and it’s up to you to make those choices from badass, iconic, genius self.
Entitled Empress & Founder of Wild Dynasty